No DAMN home training......

OK....this past Friday me and FRECKLES agreed that we would hang out on Saturday. He said he had some running around to do in the morning and we would get up together around 1pm - 2pm-ish. So Friday afternoon i gave him my address cuz when you in the half-way house they need to address SS # and all the important stuff of the person house you "say" your going to be at !! J/k about the SS # dude ain't that cool !!

But anyway I have a good night with great sleep thanks to daddy ;) , i left his place 2:15am because i didn't feel good, that cold/flu is catching up with me ! Well i wakes up about 9:30am and went to the computer cause i was also waiting for the DIRECTTV ppl to come hook up my cable to my 57' flat screen i bought..lol..I'm lying it's only 37' ! But a good 25-35 mins later I look out my front window cause i waiting on my neighbors so i can get the side gate key. GUESS who the hell is walking up my steps at like 10:00 mother-f'ing AM (STRIKE ONE)...YOU GUESSED FRECKLES...talking i knew you was going to get it twisted. So I'm freaking glad i didn't have company I ain't got time to be explaining nothing and he better he happy I was there !! OK so now we talking or should I say he talking and the convo is good. It gets to be 11:20-ish, and I'm sitting at the window on Facebook and i see the direct TV man and he rings the bell, before i could get up this light skinned negro gets up, says who is it and answered MY damn DOOR (STRIKE TWO) So I didn't say nothing but I'm thinking WTF ...where they do that at ?! Well to make a long Direct TV story short my landlord said i couldn't get it cause he doesn't want it on his roof (the HD satellite is 50lbs) so whatever I'm steaming b/c of that !! But when the technician leaves guess who walks him out and says "have a good day"? (STRIKE THREE) YUP FRECKLES this light skinned negro yet AGAIN...LMAO....so he leaves around 12pm b/c i had some work business I had to handle and we gets back together around 4pm. So he hooks my DVD player to my TV cause I couldn't do it...i hops in the shower cause i haven't had time all day between him coming all early, and my running around. Well i gets out and its working perfect and I'm sleepy. Well you know that Jail / just came home "TALK" ...so he like last time he was home he ONLY had sex 1 time in 13 months ...pure mutha-f'ing LIE, it cant be true, and this time he been home since since OCT sum thing, 2009 and its Dec 12, 2009 as of that day and YOU HAVEN'T HAD SEX YET ...who dude think it talking to..just like said CREE he got me chopped and screwed and I'm not the one you gonna get sympathy SEX from...at least not today lol...i got good stuff the night before !! But anyways the night ended very good and I dropped him off back to the half-way house to play with himself cuz he ain't getting none from over here..lol..at least this week LMAO J/K

SHIT JUST GOT REAL

CASHE’ and I are officially done. Two weeks and one day. Not long at all. Of course I didn’t intend on this to turn into a full fledged relationship. Girls just wanna have fun! And I did until yesterday…. Let me bring you up to speed.

In the beginning it started off good like it always does. There were certain red flags that I definitely noticed from the gate. I chose to ignore them mostly because I had no intentions on keeping him around 4ever. He was my temporary fix. Until I noticed a change in him. First, little stuff would happen like my calls or text would go unanswered. Then, I noticed a change in his attitude. Always saying little smart shit or just being extremely negative. I asked him wassup and then he does what every nigga does. Acts like your completely insane and off your rocker. Like I’m making all this up. I didn’t press the issue because that would have been a sign that I was catching feelings. And that just cant happen.

The weekend was rapidly approaching and that meant more time with him. During the week I’m busy with family shit. I’m a mother first. So I just knew we were gonna be laid up in a hotel chilling come friday. Well that ain’t happen. I had to help a girlfriend with something and he came with. I noticed he had an attitude, but I didn’t feel like playing 21 questions to find out why. He never gives a straight answer. Another red flag I noticed is that whenever he is caught in a lie he will reverse it on me and make it seem like I’m the guilty party. He would love to accuse me of dealing with other people. I was always honest with him for the most part. I only lied about my real name and where I live. Nothing major lol. I thought I made it clear that what we had was just for fun. I was positive he was dealing with someone else. I mean we only have been talking two weeks and I know he kept a couple of chicks on deck. He has too much money not to. And chicks flock to money. Of course when I asked him he always denied it.

Girlfriend # 2 and a X-mas tree ! LOL

OK...i was with "Airport" all day SATURDAY. OK this is how he got his name .... OK i met him back when i was FRESH and 18 y/o. I was working at the airport that summer saving for a car while on college break. I would always walk past his job and they had food there and I'm a SUCKER for food LOL. Well he always feed me good, we begin to talking regularly at work, which then spilled over to after work. He would always drive me home. AND THAT'S WHEN THE FREAK CAME OUT...that summer LMAO !! Man he introduced me to many SEX things (nothing super crazy, or lesbian-ish stuff I don't go that way on any day ) but any ways..lets just say everything he taught me helped me become the woman that I am today !! and he his my 13 years my senior too ! i keep finding old men. we lost touch because i was playing on the phone like I got married, and he said have a nice life, i said OK and we both hung up and that was in 2002 LOL.
Well we meet back up July 2009, no sex stuff happened but i was tempted but i was tied down. back to the story...........

This "new" mini relationship all started because i needed a part-time Job...lol...it sounds crazy !! But I just got out a relationship and he just got in one. He was serious talking bout I'm gonna break up with my girl and we can be together but am like NAW ! Well he was like can me and him still be together and he will take care both homes if need be....SOOO that sparked my interest! Now he doesn't take care me so to speak but he just picks up the expense of different household needs , whatever i need at the time, and other things upon my request. Well this weekend i needed a Christmas tree and decorations, laundry money and the other things needed to wash clothes, oh and hair money..lol..i know its only $100 but hell my household needed these things and i didn't wanna spend my money and i was gonna sex him anyway LOL right?. So the waiting game begins. i waited for his ass on Friday night from 6:39pm when i got his text to 10:45 when i cursed him out. OK he sends a text saying he's sorry and that his "line of work" sometimes does that...well i told him your line of work don't pay me that well to wait !!! I knew i wasnt gonna see on Saturday...i was busy and he was busy !
When Sunday comes, I have freckles coming over, i had to spin freckle's and basically stood him up, i felt bad. But i needed my tree LOL. Well AIRPORT came over went to sleep and left the money on the bed. I left out and did everything i needed to do, including getting the tree :) Of course that wasn't the end, Sex with him back in the day used to be GREAT , he is sooooooooooooooo NASTY , which I LOVE about him, and he showed me that side of course !! and that's how i got my Christmas tree ! lol...Merry Christmas HO-HO-HO and don't judge me..lol j/k

THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT

CASHE has been acting weird all day. Now I seen him Friday and we went to GENO'S for lunch. Nothing major. Now I talked to him later on that night and he said he was going down his aunt way to get some drinks. So he says he is gonna call me back when he leaves out the bar. Now at this point it was 12 or so. So I get a text from him saying “Wassup homie?” Now to anyone else that may have seemed like a normal statement, but it definitely was the first red flag I noticed. You’ll hear me talk about red flags a lot. Those are flaws that I notice in people. When I reference them it’s mainly about men. You know you can like everything about somebody up until a certain point and then one thing can turn you completely off.  Now this statement was suspect to me because he calls me “luv.” So I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. I then texted him back “wassup”. No response. It was then that I felt as if that message just might not have been for me. Plus he knows I hate when he calls me “homie”. We been passed that stage. And I never got a response back from the message I sent. Hmmmm……

Fast forward to Saturday morning. I called his cell phone and it was going straight to voicemail. Weird. I mean in his line of work his cell phone is essential. So he called me like an hour later and said he lost both of his chargers and turned his phone off so he could conserve his battery. Second red flag. How the eff do you lose a car and wall charger at the same time?  One goes in the car one goes in the house. Simple. So once again I said I’m ?gonna give him the benefit of the doubt. After last night I was a little hesistant.. I already had the feeling he stayed the nite with a chick so after he gave me that lame excuse all that benefit of the doubt shit went out the window. I instantly copped a secret attitude. That’s when I don’t tell him I’m mad, but I only answer him with one word answers. Real nonchalant. Real frank. So he says “what’s wrong with you” I reply “nothing.” He’s like “yeah ok whatever.” So I’m thinking to myself why would something be wrong with me. What did you do that you feel guilty about. Maybe I’m overreacting, but I don’t think so. He tells me he will call back when he gets a charger and goes home. At this point I was a little irked. I decided I would go to the hairdresser and get my wig tossed and to get my mind off him....

All for some Trader Joe's Tea !

OK....I wanted to go to Daddy's house for some fun sex cuz i was thinking about our morning wrestling HOLD ON wait.....let me to rewind a little to that morning. He came over like 6:15am Friday morning, he had to drop off an important package ..lol... well he comes in talking bout why the breakfast ain't made..i laughed and said PUH-LEASE but if he would told me to make it...the food would have been on the table with silverware set for 2!!! But hummmmm i had a tan towel on when i answered my door. He went straight to the kitchen, looking all through my cabinets...all hype about my "Trader Joe's" revive tea. So he starts to make it, and I hop in the shower. I gets out and he ask for help finding the HONEY. So i goes in the kitchen to get it. He comes in and rips off my towel and starts rubbing that good ol' spot in the middle and he says here's the HONEY..lol...for real !! So we in the kitchen legs up in the heater and there goes the nice morning QUICKY. Hummmm that feels GOOD...back to the story

but to make a long story short he had company that night(and no it wasn't a girl) so it like 10:45pm now after I called him to see "Wuz up ?" (in my martin voice)..... I'm hungry and Dizz texts me...he always good for some food so i calls him and on cue he like you hungry..am like yup. He says why you ain't call me earlier ..i says is it to late now ?..he like no...so I'm like bring me some Micky D's !!! He gets here and me and CREE is working on the blog. He damn near falls to sleep. BUT THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL HE IS STAYING...this dude snores like a BOAR. Back when we dealt with each other...every time it woke me up i got up and left, rather it was 11pm or 3:13am ..I HAD TO GO !!

IN TOO DEEP

I do genuinely enjoy myself when I’m around him. We have fun. He tries to act hardcore, but he really just wants to be loved. I can see it. I’m gonna do whatever it takes to keep him around even if it means calling out of work. Oh wait! I forgot I didn’t tell yall about that. He called me early Thursday morning. Talking about he missed me because he hasn’t seen me in 2 days. Now I told him in the beginning what my schedule was like so he wouldn’t expect too much time. Of course I didn’t plan on liking him this much. So now I want to make time. So CASHE says “call out of work”. So I’m thinking to myself if you pay me I will. Shit I got paid time off so it’s no biggie. I’ll just tell my manager I have cramps or something. So I did. Next thing you know I found myself in a hotel room drinking, eating, and getting fucked. And dammit I liked it! A LOT! Whoo child! I felt so free, I didn’t regret missing work at all. I hope he doesn’t ask me to do it too often. I won’t have a job messing with him.

          In the back of my mind I can’t help but to wonder why he doesn’t have a chick. He claims because he just got out of jail 3 months ago (I sure know how to pick em’) so he’s been chilling. I know he got chicks on deck, but on some real shit I’m not trying to share his ass with anyone. He pays like he weigh and he can give some good head. He doesn’t ask for much. Just a simple stroke of the ego. He really be having me on some Bonnie and Clyde shit. That shit turns me on though. And he carries a big ass gun. The hotel room looked crazy the other day. Nuvo and Hennesey on the nightstand next to some 420 and a gun. Some real life Belly shit. Then he tells me to smoke hile he’s eating my pussy. Who told him that was the type of shit I was into. That just makes it 100% better.

Dont Judge a Book By HIS Cover !

OK...so to back track from yesterday about the guy who came in my office...we will call him "FRECKLES" I think he might be around for a minute. If you need a refresher click here. OK well he walked past my office 2 times today, since we spoke yesterday ...I figured he would pop in...but noooo he gives me the eye and that pretty smile (he has nice teeth!). Then when i least expect it like 4 hours later he barges in yet again ...yet I like the assertiveness he is showing (its a turn on!) so not to sound cliche , but Don't Judge a Book By Its Cover (read the last story then you'll know) But he is smart as HELL and was spitting some Malcolm X knowledge and Dr. Phil knowledge ...i guess he would though he was locked up for 4 years came home and then went back for 19 months, his dad died in May 2009 in Jail while he was in jail also, He has been home since..i think Oct. 19, NO KIDS (thank the LORD above), but he a young Bul...he 22 !! I hate dealing with young guys they play TOO many games....but the SEX is great with them...so i guess i might play the game with him... WHY NOT ?..to make a long story short I gave him my number and he was on his way back to the HALF WAY house LMAO !!..the saga continues with the ex-offenders !! ...but he seems to have a good head on his shoulder..but i hope he give good head too lol... j/k but real rap !!

I LAY my Mack DOWN !

I know it isn’t gonna work. In my head I’ve already written him off. My heart... will take a little longer. Not for the love but because of the years wasted. He was all that he could be considering the situation. But it just wasn’t enough. Until I met this new guy…..

CASHE. I love the sound of his name. I didn’t think they still made guys like this. He’s cute, paid and he is a nice dresser. Just enough gangsta mixed with a splash of gentleman. On the other hand he’s too damn quiet for me. That’s one thing I hate about him. I’m a talker so I need interaction. His money is long so that speaks for itself. I just wonder when it will end… free money isn’t that at all. Ever heard the saying everything that glitter aint gold? I have. And I know it all too well. LET ME TAKE IT BACK TO THE BEGINNING…

When I first met him, I started to ignore him like I do the countless lames who try to talk to me on a daily basis. But it was something about him. Might’ve been because he was genuine or maybe because I was lonely. I’m sure it was the latter. You see my current boyfriend is currently serving time in prison. And I’m getting little tired of the situation. It’s those lonely nights when I miss him the most.

Cashe and I met at the gas station. It was a typical morning nothing impressive about it. I planned on starting my day off right so I figured I would give myself a 10 minute head start. What a difference a few minutes will make. I could see him staring at me as I walked through the door of the gas station, but I didn’t wanna make eye contact. I figured that would be an open invite for convo. Although he is a cutie, I already have one situation I’m trying to escape. As I waited behind him in line, I couldn’t help but to wonder what he was wearing. That damn cologne was drawing me in. And then he spoke. He said “let me get 3 vanilla dutches and 2 black ice air fresheners.” Im thinking to myself a man after my own heart. Not only did I think it, but I said it out loud. He turned around and that was all I wrote. After the initial exchange of info he then asked me what time I got off work. I told him five. He said hit me up after work I got something for you. I’m like know he aint tryna kick game to me. I’m not one of these young chicks. I said ok but I had already decided I wasn’t gonna call him for a few days. I knew his type. He was probably used to chicks falling all over him. And that wasn’t gonna be me. I don’t chase I get chased...

Cri Introduction / Current Relationship Status

After two years of visits and letters to the jail .....I decided I just couldn't’t take enough. I mean exactly what was I looking forward to? The transition from being wifey to single girl in the city proved to be a daunting task. I had long abandoned my single ways. Partying with the girls or grabbing a drink after work was a common occurrence. At 22 I knew that it was still too early for me to hang up the towel. THERE WAS SOMETHING I WAS MISSING!

Milla's backround / Current Relationship Status

OK....I'm Milla .... My current relationship status is like humm....i just got out of a almost 3 year "relationship" we broke off on kinda good terms. We kinda still "deal" with each other ...u know what that mean lol...well if you hear/read me say "DADDY" in any story...you know who I'm referring too, that was his name from me ! ;) he's kinda my Mr. Biggs !!! He is 13 years my senior , and i LOVE him to death...or at least to I really find someone ...until then he will follow me on my dating adventures as well ...( he just doesn't know )

Criminal Minded.....( Milla's Story)

OK.....so i work in a office and i have my own BIG office (i had to boast) and everyday i see this light skinned guy almost every day....by the way are light skinned guys in ?? but anyway i see him everyday he always dressed nice. So i thought he worked in the building maybe in the back or even on the 2nd or 4th FL. So I'm busing it up with my girlfriend on the phone asking her what should i say so I'm describing him.....tall, red bone light skinned, lots of freckles (cute), bald head (ok) . So I'm like every time he walk pass he gives me the eye and smile...so we agreed that next time he walks pass i should say something. So he walks up and comes straight into my office and stared grilling me ..lol...how long you been here cause I never seen you here (so I'm hype like he got a job here and so fourth)...BUT NOOOO he like am part of the 4th FL PRI program (which is an EX-OFFENDED program ) ugggggh NOT again a criminal ...he like i was here 3 years ago and i just started the program recently....I'm thinking so whats your charge ?? In a normal voice.. WTF am I just that use to it ???...so lucky my boss walks in with a student...so my boss like hey can we get a minute he like "yes, not a problem", but still sits there and basically put his legs up...LMAO I'm like can you leave for a minute !!!! He leaves and say i will see you around !! What should I do ...I'm only dating , not marrying him...so should i see where his head is at ...then judge him ??..i know I'm no one to judge but still !!!

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